With apologies to anyone who may have been checking on this blog over the last year plus and wondering where the heck we had gone, I should have written this post a long time ago. I'm pleased to report that the Twosome is just fine! But after Paisley's diagnosis of congestive heart failure and heart valve disease last year, we knew we weren't going to be able to travel the way we had been, which was the main purpose of the blog, to share our adventures with friends and family. We would need to stay closer to a good veterinarian for Paisley, not out in some remote campground (sometimes without cell signal and internet), possibly miles from a vet, without a car. Additionally, the rear tire blowout we had on I-95 in our motorhome, Pearl, took the wind of out of our sails and made us less interested in driving a large RV around. We also realized that we'd have to replace the other five tires (not a low-cost proposition in a rig of her size) to feel comfortable doing any further traveling, and we just didn't want to sink that much more money into a motorhome if we weren't going to be traveling much in the future. So, after much discussion and soul-searching, we decided to sell Pearl back to the dealer where we bought her, right down the road from where we'd spent fourteen months while I completed my orthodontia, in Winter Garden RV Resort in Florida. We'd taken great care of her and made a lot of upgrades, so even though they didn't usually take back rigs of her age (eleven years old by then), they were happy to buy her back from us. Of course we could have made a lot more money by selling her privately, but with our time constraints, we really couldn't do that. She was our full-time home, and we needed to live in her until the a couple of days before our next move, so we needed to sell her on a tight deadline, as we donated, gave away, or sold most of our accumulated possessions in the week before the sale. We're getting pretty good at downsizing! So, we sold Pearl, moved into a local Winter Garden hotel for a couple of days, and two days after getting my braces off (a couple of months behind schedule!) we flew down to Mexico for the winter and beyond. We had a friend in the area and knew there was a good vet there, and I'd already checked with her to make sure Paisley's medications would be available. So we felt fine taking Paisley on the plane trip and then staying put for awhile, at least until she was no longer with us. With her condition, she could last a couple more years or until tomorrow; we never know. Fortunately, Paisley has done well here in Mexico and is still alive and kicking nearly fifteen months after her initial diagnosis, much to our surprise and delight. And we love it here as well! We are renting an oceanfront place on the Yucatan gulf coast, enjoying our bicycling (but of course!), walks, frequent outings to the wonderful city of Merida, and have reconnected with our friend Shelby, whom we met when we all lived in Belize and also had a chance to get together with when we lived in Playa del Carmen and she lived on the nearby island of Cozumel. We've also met lots of friendly new folks here. The lifestyle is laid back, the cost of living is reasonable, and the climate is warm and balmy -- admittedly often hot and humid, but being used to Florida, not that much of a change for us! We had been waiting for a chance to get back to Mexico, and it just worked out to be the perfect time. For now, because of Paisley, we're not doing any travel other than day trips. She needs to wear a diaper indoors because of the diuretic she takes, and because of her heart condition cannot undergo anesthesia, so we have to brush her teeth daily to help keep periodontal disease at bay. And she requires several medications and special low-sodium food. Given her care requirements we feel more comfortable not leaving her with anyone or having a dog sitter. We never know how long we'll have her in our lives, so we're enjoying every day she has left -- there will be more time for traveling later. And so, since we aren't traveling these days, there didn't seem to be much reason to keep up with this blog. For the most part, our life here, while fulfilling, is not particularly blog-worthy, except for the fact that we are based in the Yucatan state of Mexico! Someday, if we start traveling again, we may return to blogging, but for now we're enjoying the break. Again, I apologize for waiting so long to put this post up and hope no one was worried about us!
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Emily! I randomly clicked on your Goodreads profile b/c you liked my review of Slow Motion and it lead me here and I was about to click away when I saw something about Emily and Barry and I realized... I used to ride bikes with you in Chapel Hill with the Tarwheels back in the early 00's!! I literally was telling my husband about you recently; I remember you telling me about your sweet arrangement where you'd come home from work and Barry would have your bike all ready to go. I know it's been forever but I remember how kind and encouraging you were when I was totally new to cycling and totally out of my element. I have no idea if you remember me, I was the petite 20-something with a maroon Specialized (still have it!). Glad to see you're living what looks like an intentional, adventurous life! Please get in touch if your journey takes you through Colorado!
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David Christmas
8/14/2019 12:59:34 pm
Good to hear from you guys and that you're making Paisley comfortable. Gotta cut back on run mileage so I ordered a bike (Specialized carbon gravel) last week and thought of you two. Enjoy the Yucatan!
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Barb Nutting
9/12/2019 06:50:22 pm
Glad to read your blog again - I missed it and your photos!
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CatM
5/11/2020 01:05:56 pm
Okay you two... we need an update on where you are and how you are doing. :)
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Emily
3/26/2024 01:15:07 pm
Hi Cat, I am so sorry to be almost four years late responding to your comment! Weebly changed hosting platforms, and I lost touch with this blog and even how to view comments for far too long.... To answer your question, just in case you happen to see this, we moved back to North Carolina at the beginning of the pandemic, spring of 2020. We rented for a couple of years while we built a house on wooded acreage, where we now live. We're busy gardening, cycling, and just enjoying a quiet and non-traveling life, if you can believe that. The pandemic kind of quelled our desire to travel. Not to say it will never happen again, but for now, I have family here that I need to stay close to, and we're happy puttering around our garden and woodland trails. Hope you are well!
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CatM
3/26/2024 04:24:38 pm
Hello Emily, 7/12/2024 03:37:13 am
This is a fantastic article filled with valuable insights. Thank you for sharing this excellent content with us.
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Emily & BarryWe're a long-married, early-retired couple who are currently traveling as nomads with no fixed home base. After years of living in North Carolina (Emily's home state), we spent 18 months living oceanfront on Ambergris Caye, Belize, a year road-tripping the US in a Honda CR-V, a year in Playa del Carmen, Mexico, and are now roaming North America in our 32' motorhome, Pearl, following warm weather whenever possible. Archives
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